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The Problem with All-or-Nothing Goals

The Problem with All-or-Nothing Goals

Goals are tricky. Set them too high, and you risk burnout or frustration when life inevitably gets in the way. Set them too low, and you won’t push yourself to grow. The sweet spot? A flexible goal system that keeps you progressing no matter the circumstances. Enter the ABC Goal System—a method that helps you stay consistent without guilt or perfectionism getting in the way.

The Problem with All-or-Nothing Goals

We’ve all been there. You set an ambitious goal—maybe it’s hitting the gym five days a week, writing 1,000 words a day, or making ten sales calls per day. But then life happens: You get sick, work gets overwhelming, or motivation fades. If you can’t hit your big goal, you feel like a failure and end up doing nothing at all.

The ABC Goal System prevents that cycle by giving you a tiered approach to success.

How the ABC Goal System Works

For any area of life, set three levels of goals:

  • A Goal: Your best-case scenario. This is your ambitious, stretch goal—the perfect outcome.

  • B Goal: A solid, realistic achievement. Something that keeps you progressing even on an average day.

  • C Goal: Your minimum viable effort. The smallest step that still moves you forward.

No matter how you’re feeling—energized, average, or exhausted—you’ll always have a goal within reach. The key is that even your C Goal counts as success.

Why This Works

  1. Prevents Perfectionism from Stopping Progress
    If you can't do the full workout, at least you can still go for a walk.

  2. Eliminates Guilt
    You don’t feel bad for missing an A Goal because the C Goal still moves you forward.

  3. Encourages Consistency
    Small wins compound over time, leading to long-term success.

Applying the ABC Goal System to Your Life

Here’s how this looks in different areas:

Fitness

  • A Goal: Full workout (weights + cardio, 90 minutes)

  • B Goal: One type of exercise (weights or cardio, 45–60 minutes)

  • C Goal: 10-minute movement (walk, stretch, or light activity)

Work Productivity

  • A Goal: 4 hours of deep work with no distractions

  • B Goal: 2 hours of focused work

  • C Goal: 30 minutes of progress on a key task

Relationships

  • A Goal: Dinner and a long, meaningful conversation

  • B Goal: A short walk or quality phone call

  • C Goal: A quick message to check in

Mental Health

  • A Goal: Meditation, journaling, and a long walk

  • B Goal: 10 minutes of meditation or a short break

  • C Goal: One deep breath and a moment of awareness

Getting Started with Your ABC Goals

  1. Pick an area where you struggle with consistency. This could be fitness, work, personal growth, or relationships.

  2. Define your A, B, and C Goals. Write them down somewhere visible.

  3. Track your progress. Each day, check which goal you achieved.

  4. Celebrate consistency. Hitting a C Goal is still a win.

Final Thoughts

The biggest mistake people make is letting the pursuit of perfection stop them from making any progress at all. The ABC Goal System ensures that no matter what, you keep moving forward. Small steps lead to big wins over time.

So, what’s your A, B, and C Goal for today? Take a moment to set them—and start winning on every level.

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